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Commando Steve: “When there’s a breakdown in a relationship and then there’s a blended family, yeah, it’s challenging”

“My step-dad grew up in the tail-end of the era of children being seen but not heard. He met my mum when I was five. And with me not being his own child, and then three other brothers coming along, well, I think there was a lot going on for him within his own head.

How My Divorce Made Me Stronger, Wiser And Calmer

Alex Laguna’s divorce almost destroyed him and tore his family apart. But the process of piecing things back together gave him the life tools to become a better man.

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“Mum and Dad Are Splitting Up” – How to Handle the Toughest Conversation You’ll Ever Have

When Ben Dillon-Smith and his ex-wife split up, he had to break the news to his five-year-old son. Here’s how he did it and what he learned along the way.
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Michael Klim: “Divorce Has Made Me A Better Dad”

WHAT I KNOW ABOUT FATHERHOOD: Michael Klim, father of Stella (13), Frankie (8) and Rocco (11)
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Five things single dads can learn from Shane Warne about fatherhood

There isn’t much that hasn’t been written about Shane Warne, both prior to and following his tragic passing. You didn’t need to be a cricket fan to know of or have an opinion about the talented spin bowler and Aussie larrikin. As a family lawyer, what has lingered with me is the example Warne set for fathers – particularly those who are navigating a separation or divorce. These are five things Warnie can teach single dads about fatherhood.
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9 Ways To Be A Better Mate To Someone Getting Divorced

Break-ups are never easy. But the consequences can prove especially bleak for men. Research from the Journal of Men's Health found that divorced men have higher rates of death, substance abuse, depression and lack of social support. The study also found that divorced or separated men have a suicide rate that’s 39 per cent higher than that of married men.
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Michael Klim: To Be Honest

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The No.1 Tactic For Long-distance Dads

Work trips taking you away from home? Do this one thing to stay connected with your partner and kids.
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Mick Jagger and Me: The Old Dads’ Club

As the age of first-time fathers continues to rise, one writer reflects on the wisdom of having kids after 40.
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“Make Your Life Better And Save Your Marriage”

This is your worst habit (no, not the thing with the ear-wax) and it’s poisoning your relationship. Meet the solution.
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The Worst Advice I Ever Got About Fatherhood

Becoming a dad can feel like death by endless, helpful suggestions. But some advice is particularly dangerous.
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Future-proof Your Marriage – Insider Tips From A Divorce Lawyer

It’s the time of year when divorce rates spike. Watch out for the five things most likely to kill your marriage according to veteran family lawyer
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Osher Gunsberg: “There’s something super wonderful about falling in love with a woman that has a kid”

Being a stepdad is not without it’s challenges for all of us, because it’s a new family unit for everyone to get used to. But I was unfazed by it. I met Audrey when I’d just turned 40 and the reality of being a single man in your forties is you’re going to date women with children. And I would recommend it. Highly.
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“It’s The Most Exciting Time In History To Be a Dad” – Here’s Why…

If you’re a dad right now, then congratulations: you’ve timed your run to perfection. That’s the verdict of Australia’s leading authority on fatherhood, Professor Richard Fletcher, who believes this is the best time in history to be a dad.
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I’m Calling Bullshit: Men Can Forge Just As Deep A Bond With Their Kids

To state the obvious, being an expectant dad is terrifying. I know it was for me. I felt helpless watching my wife struggle through her pregnancy. I was so excited that once my son was born I could actually do something to help instead of offering the obligatory pillow or back rub. I couldn’t wait to meet him. But I never imagined that before he even entered the world, I’d be told that I’d never connect with my son like my wife could.
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